I love the excitement in his eyes . . .

I love that snowfall still thrills my son. I love that he jumps up and down at the prospect of playing in the snow and especially that he excuses mommy for having become such a wimp and hating the snow.

Jonathan loves to sled down a snowy hill and he especially loves it when he can do it with his Dad or his grandfather. Unlike his dad and I, Jonathan’s Grandfather, my dad, will go up and down that hill almost as many times as Jonathan wants.

Dad turned 68 this month and didn’t seem as keen as going up and down that hill as he once did and even attempted to tire the kid out by making sure the sled went further down the hill, which meant Jonathan would have to walk further. No task seemed too daunting for the “Energizer Bunny” though.No matter how far he had to walk he’d get to the top of the hill and say “Again!”

His one ride with mommy resulted in a near disaster as we missed clipping the flag pole by a mere two inches and I ended up having my camera buried in snow. Before we almost hit the pole I honestly heard the clink in my head and imagined we would both be bleeding within seconds. I have no idea how we missed that pole, but I joked with my aunt later that God probably rolled his eyes at my silly screaming and kicked the sled to one side while rolling his eyes and saying, “Good, grief…get a grip on yourself, child.”

I’ll admit that I was more worried about the camera than the state of Jonathan and I when it was all over since Jonathan was laughing and I still had all my limbs. That wild ride was my last and I made my poor father come out and finish the sled rides.

Jonathan didn’t seem to mind at all.

Of course, my dad might have minded the last couple of trips since my kid announced after that first ride, when he got hit in the face with flying snow, “I’m sitting in the back now!”

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He still likes hanging with his mama

Jonathan and I went to the playground a couple of weeks ago, on a rare warm day in January.

Other parents  had the same idea and there were a few other children there. When we first arrived though, there was only one other little girl about Jonathan’s size and her baby brother with their parents. The girl spotted Jonathan and sprinted across the playground to greet him.

He jumped back and she said, “Oh! Did I scare you?”

It was the cutest thing coming out of the mouth of someone so young.

Then she grabbed his hand and they were off, running across the playground and hiding in the nooks and crannies of the wooden structure.

Only ten minutes had passed when he found me and said, “Come play with me.”

“Why? you have someone your age to play with,” I said, knowing how much he craves the attention of children his age after being at home with mommy most of the time.

“I just want to play with you,” he said and did everything he could after that to avoid the little girl and the other children on the playground.

He even went as far one point as to hide in a corner of one of the structures and ask me to hide with him. I couldn’t fit in the spot but I stood near him. Still, the little girl found him and squeezed into the spot with him, a large smile spreading across her face.

She was just thrilled with him and I thought he would be thrilled with her attention, but apparently he is not yet ready for the attention of the opposite sex. And actually? I’m OK with that.

And I’m OK with the fact he wants to play with me and only me because I know one day he won’t want a thing to do with me.

 

 

Yoga and the boy who meditated for less than 30 seconds

We (my dad, mom and son) visited a cousin of mine last week at her home, which doubles as her Yoga studio.

She wanted some photographs of her studio and her to promote her business.

Jonathan seemed to forget we were there for business and saw the studio space as a new and interesting playground.

He ran from one side to the other side of the studio and slammed into Yoga pillows and fell onto the hard wood floor and I swore I was going to have to go to the ER with him.

When my cousin was ready to do a few poses, Jonathan showed her what he’d been doing for awhile now — a pose from The Mr. Men Show.

She decided she would meditate with him for a bit too, which resulted in a hilarious moment of them checking on each other at one point to see who was peeking at whom.

While Jonathan’s meditating pose is quite cute, it’s rare that my child ever sits still longer than a few seconds during the day — unless he is enthralled in a cartoon or letting me read a book to him.

 

I don’t necessarily promote meditation, in the Eastern sense of the word, instead encouraging him to focus on meditating on God’s word or simply using the time to focus on the quiet.

I hope he can find those moments of peace and enjoy them, at least when he gets older because moments of peace and quiet do not come often to him at this age, unless he is asleep.

Sweet Shot Day Part of Sweet Shot Tuesday with My Three Boybarians.

Fuzzy pink, monster slippers and a scooter

Some nights are weirder than others in our house, but almost every night is at least a little weird.

Right now we’re really feeling the cabin fever and we have another two months of winter left.

Some days I’m not sure how we’ll survive but then my kid comes out wearing an outfit that sends giggles rumbling up from my belly and I decide we’ll be OK after all, as long as we can laugh.

 

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Stillness.

Jonathan almost never seems to be still anymore. He is constantly moving, constantly talking.

He gets up early and tries his best to continue his rambunctious activity late into the night.

He wants to jump from couches and climb on stools and chase the cats and splash in mud puddles and play robots and play Iron Man and …

 

And that’s in only the first ten minutes of the day. I am a zombie by 11 p.m., but I often push my eyelids open simply so I can have a few moments to myself, without hearing a small voice telling me he’s just “helped” decorate the tree and without that feeling of dread that he’s about to leap into a trip into the emergency room.

I have an absolute blast with this kid — no joke.

A couple of years ago he got sick, so sick all he could do is sit in one place and stare. He wouldn’t eat or drink and wasn’t interested in playing. It was a horrible nightmare for his dad and I. On those days where we are so tired we can’t see straight but he’s still spinning in circles in the living room floor just to see how dizzy he can get, Hubby and I remember that illness and thank God he’s still with us.

We then ask for him to fall asleep for the night, just so we can think straight again and collapse from the mental and emotional exhaustion being a parent brings.

Even though we never want to see him like he was then, sick and pale, and completely uninterested in life, there is something so precious and perfect about our son when he’s finally surrendered to sleep.

We know his body is recovering from his full-on energy-filled day. And we know it won’t be long before he’s awake and ready to go again.

 

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The bra.

There is nothing quite as embarassing as walking through the underwear section with your five year old, looking for a new bra you really need, while your five year old touches various bras and says, “How about this one, mama?”
Really loved when he stuck his hand inside one of those formed bras and said, “oooh..this one is nice.” and then stood there for a while with a delighted look on his face while he ran his hands all over it. It was like the scene with Ralphie and the lamp in the shape of a lady’s leg in A Christmas Story, the way he was admiring the bra.
Dear, Lord, give me strength for the teenage years.